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Did you know....
Child abuse is reported on an average of every 10 seconds and three children die every day as a result of such abuse.
As parents we have a responsibility to our children. And not just a responsibility to "our children" but also to the children around us. If you suspect a child you know is being abused. REPORT it!! It is not only our right to get involved, it is our obligation.
Oh I know there are days kids push us to the limit. It's frustrating, even anger-provoking. But that's all the more reason people should take care of their own emotional health. A parent who is emotionally healthy (and at least relatively happy) is better able to deal with being a parent. Wearing emotional baggage as the new fashion, or using it as an excuse for a bad day is not acceptable. There is no excuse for child abuse!!!!!!!! Get help or counselling! Learn healthy coping skills!
These innocent little faces look up to us. We are their role model and they will view the world through the eyes we give them. If we provide a home where there is constant anger, mood swings, and verbal/emotional/physical abuse, these kids will grow up to wear those scars and base their lives around them. Don't steal the "joy of living" away from our children.
Praise your child when he or she is doing what's right. Be sensitive and understanding when they have done wrong. Don't use words like "you're a brat"..or "You're stupid." Don't break their spirit. Talk with them. Set, clear, fair guidelines and expectations. Stick by them. Childproof your home. Lock up the liquor cabinet. Talk to your teen about drugs in a non-lecturing way. Talk about responsible sexual behavior. SET A GOOD EXAMPLE. Let your children know they can come to you. That they can rely on you.
Let your home be a gentle, safe haven for them. Take responsibilty for the children in our neighbourhood. Create warm memories. Build a loving family.
